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I'm Xhenet Aliu. (It’s pronounced Jeanette Alley-ooh.) Author of two novels and a story collection. Not a brand. Self-promotion saboteur. Digital hermit but not quite as misanthropic IRL. This newsletter is an attempt to pursue virtual connections with interesting humans from whom I'd otherwise remain digitally estranged because of a pathological aversion to social media, and to pontificate in a way nobody asked for on the memes, trends, and nefarious ad campaigns I encounter when I fall down the wrong series of tubes.

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The spirit of this newsletter is genuine connection through deeper, more sustained engagement than the bytes and snippets of social media allow. Or maybe it’s just an excuse to be carelessly wordy and to not have to look at pictures of myself. In any case, the point isn’t chasing the dopamine high of a heart icon mindlessly clicked upon, so while thoughtful comments are welcome and communion encouraged, obligatory niceties aren’t required. And mean comments from people I think suck don’t phase me, as my bullies in high school eventually realized.

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I'm Xhenet Aliu. (It's pronounced Jeanette Alley-ooh.) Fiction writer. Not a brand. Social media misanthrope. Wanna be friends IRL?